the reason oppressed groups say “___ are awful” instead of “some ___ are awful” is because including the word “some” allows individuals of that group to detach themselves from the problem and shuck the blame off and say “well they arent really talking about me so i can ignore…
This explains everything pretty well. I like it when people explain the logic, and I can see how this actually works now. I plan to reference this, and I hope others do too.
if you dont have a gay cousin then youre the gay cousin sorry to break it to you
but if none of your cousins have a gay cousin, then all of you are the gay cousin. Then you all have a gay cousin, so you aren’t necessarily a gay cousin. Then once again, you all don’t have a gay cousin. You are all Schrodinger’s gay cousin, in a super positioned state of both being the gay cousin and not.